Tuesday, February 21, 2017 ♥ 4:46 PM
Dear the 20s self,
This post is for me, the 30s self, to tell you what to prepare when I hit the 30s.
To be frank, reality and imagination aren't really good friends.
You have always thought you will be married with kids before 30s. But I am still single and kid-less. However, i am a happy single who enjoys live of a singlehood.
As for your bank account, you have to learn the art of saving. Damm on how much I blame you now for wasting all those hard earned cold hard cash.
Not forgetting, you have to to know and understand the art of making REAL friends and not those hypocrites whom almost pushed her into the dark tunnel.
Last but not least, I want you to know, life is not just chocolate and cotton candy but a (smelly) durian. There will be people who will be there to put you down, There will be people who want to see you fail and there will be these bunch of people for some god knows what reasons, hate you to their guts.
There will be times you felt so helpless and just want to die. Just wait!
Coz life isn't so cruel towards you.
There will be better people coming into your life.
The people who loves you for who you are and seriously can bitch through and fight with you and still loves you without you needing to call them and apologies even if it's their fault.
You will find the love for photography and travelling. Yes, you do travel a lot and captured a lot of interesting photos. I am proud to tell you that you manage to travel to Central Europe before you hit 30! Wow!
No, your love for plushies never change which is good coz that means you never lost the kid in you. You manage to laugh a lot (mostly on weekends), you watched like zillion of movies with your bff and oh.. you puts on a lot of weight. Trust me, even I do not know what happened when you swelled like a balloon.
There are plenty of life decisions you made that aren't great and when the me now think of them, may results in mentally banging into the walls.
Still, I thank you for making them coz they made who I am today.
I can tell you. You are an independent strong woman who learnt not to be bothered by others and practised the art of ignoring people who throw negativity at you, You know how to react well to bac remarks and just close your ears to insensitive comments.
There are still so many things I wanna share with you.
Let me pen those thoughts in another post then.
Love,
your 30s self
